Of Missionaries and Locals and Tom Hiddleston

This may be my most controversial post, but maybe some of you won't find it controversial and maybe some of you will.

I read a post by a fellow blogger about Tom Hiddleston's involvement with Live Below the Line and about haters hating a few months ago and I was (I don't want to say moved so I guess inspired is the right word) inspired to write this post. I hesitated to write a post like this because of its 'controversial content' (or at least what I believe is controversial). But anyways, I reviewed on the blog post saying:

So while this post has really nothing to do with 'haters hating,' it does have something to do with what I said in my comment on Gina Mustos's blog post.

I wrote up above that being a missionary kid, I saw fellow missionaries come to Thailand and treat the locals here as props. And I will have to say that is kind of true.
I've never been a huge fan of celebrities and even missionaries who go to 'foreign' countries for (in all sense of the term) publicity. Even Tom Hiddleston's (who will admit I do have a crush on) involvement with UNICEF caused me to lift up an eyebrow and roll my eyes.
Now, I know I shouldn't judge. But as I said, I'm not a huge fan of people going to a foreign country just simply for the 'Oh wow! You're so brave to go to another country! Oh! Look at you with the little brown baby!' You know, those kind of comments. Now please do NOT get me wrong, I think it is brave for people to get out of their comfort zones and see new places. But people like celebrities, missionaries, and organizations who send groups over seas, they are in the business of people. And it seems like these 'do gooders' (do gooders sounds kind of bad, but it does kind of describe them) seem to forget that. They forget that these foreigners are people too. Of course, I'm sure celebrities like Tom Hiddleston, Katy Perry, and Angelina Jolie really are concerned about that state of poverty in the countries they go to and really are concerned for the people. But really I'm not a huge fan of celebrities and having 'photoshoots' of their 'emotional adventure' in some poverty stricken country.

Back to talking about missionaries, I know I shouldn't judge them because I don't really know them. But there are some missionaries who seem to forget that they are dealing with actual people and their souls (which is the main reason why missionaries go over seas), they forget that they are here to save people and to help them grow in God, but it almost seems like the only thing they are concerned with is taking pictures, sending them to their church and just say 'Look at these poor people! Look at how they live! Look at how weird this culture is!', and yet they never do anything to help these 'poor' people and just concentrate on the 'weird' culture.
They, in a way, begin to treat people like props for a photoshoot. And that is a sad thing. It becomes all about them and not about the people who are need. It is an almost selfish thing (the exact thing tells us NOT to be!).

If you just finished reading what I wrote up above, don't close this up yet and don't comment about how I'm just a cynical, judgmental person. This is just how I feel. I'm sure there are people out there who really do have a heart for those who are suffering. I'm not saying that every famous person is just out to look good for the cameras, there are famous people who use their celebrity status to raise awareness for their cause.
But being a missionary kid, I've seen the ups and the downs of Thai people. I do know that they can do wrong and it was easy to grow up and just say "Wow, people are horrible beings", but I've seen them change and become faithful Christians. I've learned that anyone is capable of doing horrible things. Everyone is capable of stealing what isn't there's, committing horrible acts of violence, but like how we can do bad things we can do great things.
I think what Western people forget (and not just Westerners, but really everyone) is that everyone is people. New missionaries are naive and think that Thais are innocent, ignorant children. But they're not. Like anywhere else, there good people and bad people.

So a word of advice to those of you who are deciding to go over seas for come kind of cause or other, just remember that people are people. Treat adults like adults. Treat children like children. Just because someone has a different culture from you doesn't mean that they don't think like adults.
But don't treat everyone, like they're scum of the earth. So just remember that you should treat everyone with respect and love and just treat them as you would want to be treated. Don't treat them like they're just a figure for you picture.

So this was a bit of a long post and I hope I got my point across. Maybe some of this came off as a bit harsh, but I try to tell the truth. And just as I commented on Gina's post, it is easy to become cynical and judgmental. I don't want you all to read this and think 'missionaries really are horrible.' Because like anywhere, there are people who are doing wonderful things. I know missionaries who are doing amazing things here and are actually not crazy! Which is a good thing.
What I'm trying to get at in this post, is that, yes, there are horrible, selfish people in the world. But there are also good people in this world too. To quote Samwise Gamgee, "There is some good in this world, Mr. Frodo and it's worth fighting for!"